Driving myself to depression

Hi all, Im new here, infact im new to Menieres as well. I have been suffering for a few month's now, and not quite been diagnosed with Menieres yet, but i know it is coming. I have not long go married too and this is why im feeling very low indeed. I am feeling unwell all day and have been for 3weeks now. The dizzy spells i can just about handle, but falling is another, with my poor hubby picking me up. Then at night my heart race's, pins and needle's then that horrid buzz in both ear's! And No Sleep, aghhhh!
I dont smoke, drink, and very little salt, so i cant figger out the trigger i have read about. I am at the point where i dont go out as people have called me a drunk :( I dont want my husband to be my carer, its just not fare on him, even though he tells me im being silly..
I dont know how people can live like this, but any suggestions are very welcome.
Sorry for going on... xx